One of the most common questions we hear from separated parents planning a trip is ‘Do I need permission to take my child abroad?’ The answer depends on who holds parental responsibility, whether any court orders are in place, and where in the world you are proposing to travel. Ensuring you understand your legal position before you book the holiday protects both you and your child.
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Who Holds Parental Responsibility?
The concept of parental responsibility is key to any issue relating to international travel with a child. In England and Wales, a mother automatically acquires parental responsibility at birth. A father acquires it if he was married to the mother at the time of the child’s birth, or if he is named on the birth certificate for children born after 1 December 2003. Alternatively, parental responsibility can be acquired by an agreement or a court order.
Where only one parent holds parental responsibility, that parent can, in principle, travel abroad with the child without the other’s consent. Where both parents hold parental responsibility, the consent of both is required for any international travel. Where a parent has a ‘lives with’ child arrangements order, they can take the child abroad for up to 28 days without seeking the other parent’s consent. Beyond that window, written consent or a court order is required, regardless of the circumstances.
If you are unsure whether you have parental responsibility for your child, we can assess your situation and help you understand what it means for your travel plans.
Can I Apply For A Passport For My Child Without The Other Parent’s Consent?
All individuals who hold parental responsibility must consent to a child’s passport application. If the other parent withholds that consent and there is no court order in place, you may need to make a court application before a passport can even be issued. Conversely, if you are concerned that the other parent might apply for a passport for your child without your knowledge, you can lodge an objection with HM Passport Office. Acting early is important in either scenario.
Do I Need To Do Anything Once I Have Obtained Permission To Take Child Abroad UK?
If you obtain the other parent’s consent to take your child abroad, there are additional straightforward practical steps worth taking.
For example, you should retain written evidence of that consent, whether by email or a signed letter, and carry it with you when you travel, together with a copy of the child’s birth certificate. If you have a child arrangements order, carry a copy of that too. These documents can prevent unnecessary delays or difficulties at border control, particularly where you and your child have different surnames.
It is also worth keeping a record of where the other parent can be contacted during the trip, along with your full travel itinerary. In the event of any dispute arising while you are abroad, having this information readily available can be helpful.
What Can I Do If I Cannot Obtain Permission To Take My Child Abroad?
Where your child’s other parent withholds their consent to you taking your child abroad, and the dispute cannot be resolved through direct conversation, mediation is a constructive first step before making any court application. A trained family mediator can help both parents work through the issues in a structured and neutral setting. Reaching an agreed outcome through mediation is nearly always quicker, less stressful, and less costly than contested court proceedings.
Where mediation has not worked or is not appropriate, a specific issue order can be applied for under section 8 of the Children Act 1989. This allows the court to make a decision on the specific question of whether the proposed travel should go ahead. The court’s focus will always be on the best interests of the child, and it will weigh the genuine benefits of the trip against the risk that the child would not be returned. Where that risk is assessed as anything more than minimal, permission may well be refused, regardless of how straightforward the trip appears on its face.
If the other parent’s consent to your proposed trip abroad is not forthcoming, taking legal advice before booking is strongly recommended. We can advise on the specific considerations that apply to your proposed trip, including the destination, and help you assess the realistic prospects of obtaining court permission where it is needed.
If you have questions about taking your child abroad or need advice on any aspect of international travel and parental consent, contact our family law team today.
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